She goes through with the engagement to Randy.
But she is still in love with another man.
Or at least infatuated with the other man.
She hesitates when two other men suddenly ask her out in the midst of her wedding planning.
She cries out to God but is in too deep to walk away from Randy.
She can't fathom what lay ahead.
She rationalizes why she should marry Randy: He took her virginity (his doing more than her desire).
Aren't you supposed to marry the first man you have sex with?
Sick theology.
Stalked without realizing it.
Talked into marriage, rather than falling in love first.
The first signs of problems appear on the honeymoon.
No Christian gets married expecting to become separated soon after. But this is what happens in many cases. Especially in cases where the groom feigns salvation because he knows he must to win his Christian girlfriend over.
The naive young Christian bride trusts enough in God to believe all is well. What doesn't seem well, God will surely fix. But soon enough, she's sorry and entrapped.
